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Letter to a crush
September 18, 2019 1st Anniversary Wishes 1 comment

How to Write a Secret Admirer Letter to Your Crush. There are many ways to connect with the girl you like. Truth be told, girls of any type like to.

In honor of finishing the first draft of my e-book, How to Stay in Touch, I’m going to be sharing some simple letter templates for you to stay in touch with people close to you in your life over the next week while I finish up my vacation. (I’ll be popping in for the One Down, One Up on Friday though.) You can use them as physical letters, the words to write in an email, or a starting point for an even longer letter. I’ll be sending out these letters while I’m on the road, and absolutely let me know if you send them as well!

This is my favorite use of snail mail. Hand written letters to crushes. If you read my list of no reason reasons to send mail you might remember that one of the number one things you can use snail mail for is raunchy romance letters. I actually have a box in my room of all of the romantic hand written letters I’ve ever received and I love going back and reading through them. The template below is a simple way to ease into, hey, I really like you if you’re not quite ready to go straight to raunch (blog post idea?). Who knows, maybe you’ll even get a letter back?

Actually, if you put a stamped self-addressed envelope in the one you send, you’re probably more likely to get a letter back, right? I should probably try that with the boy.

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I am crushing hard on you. From the moment I have met you I felt something I did not feel in a long time. You are special, so special and I do not.

Dear Love: Letter To My Crush

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An Open Letter To My Crush: This Is Just To Let You Know I Loved You

Rupali Goyal in Life Is Tough on 18 July, 2017

Hey Handsome,

I hope you are doing well in your life. Although we are not on talking terms for the past one year, there is something I should tell you. I can’t say it all on your face because the moment I see you, everything goes out of focus, I feel numb and don’t say even half the things I want to say. I slur as if I'm drunk. I fumble. 

You are no less than a drug for me. I am addicted. I miss you every day, every minute and every second.
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Going back to the time, I just remember how we met, how we became friends and how I fell for you. You are indeed a great personality - the way you talk, the way you smile, your obsession for success, love for your family. Your passion for your future, your philosophical thoughts, clarity about your life, the purity in your heart, control over your emotions, your friendly nature, your efforts to make me laugh when I feel alone, when I feel so low. The way you turn every intense situation into something positive and sometimes light. Being yourself, being so selfless, adventurous, caring, affectionate. You always pushed me towards success and every bit of this attracted me towards you.


Yes, that’s the thing that attracted me more than your style, your looks, financial status or any other such materialistic thing. You wonder why I behave differently when Sheena or Neha are around you? Maybe I don’t want anyone else to be closer to you, maybe I want to be only who you share your secrets with, and your fears, your success. Not only me but first me. I feel jealous of those hugs you guys exchange. I feel so jealous when she sits on the backseat of your bike.

You wonder why I get angry and leave suddenly? That is all out of jealousy that leaves me feeling insecure. But all in all, your single text makes me feel alright. Thank you for all the care, love and confidence in me.

I love you more when you say, "text me when you reach home", you make me feel special when you share your ideas with me, when you tell me how your day was, when you discuss your future plans with me.
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But I feel really sad when I cannot find myself anywhere in those plans. Then I think of the present moment and feel blessed that I'm with you, in that moment.


Other than the fluctuating feelings, I am really thankful to you for pushing me to my limits to get to my goals, making me independent, more focused, making me love myself, smiling without any reason, expressing my emotions in a better way. Thank you for allowing me to care for you, to love you deeply, to be an important part of your life, sharing a few good moments, thoughts and secrets. Thank you for everything.

Lastly, I am really sorry for all everything wrong I've done. I got those signals wrong I know. Maybe you make everyone around you feel the way you make me feel, maybe you care deeply for everyone around you. But do you also ask everyone how their life is going, what they ate and what not, what they feel about the pleasant weather and being far away? How about a coffee at night? Maybe you ask everyone for a call when you feel low or can’t sleep, may be you pamper and sing to all of them when they can’t sleep, maybe you discuss your future plans with everyone and send those cute teaser texts to all of them. Maybe you love every one of those people but me.

You have everyone around you but I just had you. Maybe this is where I went wrong. Sorry for being madly and deeply in love with you, sorry for considering you my first and last love.
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Although we are away and not talking to each other, I talk to you daily. I could never express this in words because you made me fall short of words each time I saw you. So, here I conclude my letter with a hope that you will read it someday, not to make you feel guilty or embarrassed but to let you know how much I loved you.

Yours lovingly,
Friend or lover or crush or stranger.

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A Letter To Your Crush

letter to a crush

Hey you,

You beautiful boy. This one is for you. And the funny thing is, you will probably not even know that I wrote this for and about you. You are not very keen on social media so I wonder if you would even click the link you see that will lead you to this post but if you do, this one is for you baby.

I am crushing hard on you.From the moment I have met you I felt something I did not feel in a long time. You are special, so special and I do not even think you realize how special you are. When I saw you I felt this instant attraction and for me this was weird because you are not my standard ‘type’. You are not the blond viking’ish looking scandinavian guy, no you, you were different. Tall, dark (‘ish ) and handsome. So handsome that I could not keep my eyes of of you.

For me it is so easy to read men. For me men are simple (and no I do not mean to insult anyone over here). But the guys I meet, I can read them, they are an open book for me. But you, you ar a big mystery for me. I could not read anything. And it fascinates me.
Sometimes I noticed that I was just staring at you. Watching you move and watching you be in a moment and it made me smile. You really march to the beat of your own drum, and that is what I like about you and what I admire about you. 
They say that opposites attract and I consider myself to be your opposite. However I have noticed a few things were we also are quite similar.
Normally I feel very comfortable around men, but with you I felt a bit insecure. Where normally I have a lot of game, with you I had 0 game, like seriously, 0. I was too afraid to say something stupid that I chose in situations to say nothing at all.

You are the perfect combination of cute and sexy, attractive, handsome and hot.So hot.If I would have had to create my definition of the perfect guy, it would be you. You are extremely smart, ambitious, kind, polite and so beautiful. You have great manners, manners that blow me away and I did not know that guys like you still existed. You are so amazing. You have these ‘weird’ habitsthat are actually kinda geeky but I really like them. You do things that no other guy that I know does and for some reason they make me shy around you. And those things make you so adorable.

You are the kind of guy I could kiss forever. From the evening till the morning without getting bored. I could stay up all night and talk to you about everything. You are such an interesting and intelligent person and if you could have impressed me so much in the small amount of time we spend together, imagine how mindblown I will be after a few more weeks.

In just a few days you have inspired me more than people I have known for such a long time. You have done so much for me, more than you will probably ever realize and for that I am forever thankful. You made me want to be a better version of myself. I want to be someone that can meet your standards.

I wish I could get to know you better but that is such an unrealistic thought since I think that this crush is a one way street. And besides that, we do not even live in the same city, let alone the same country.So I will just let it be and admire you from a distance and secretly hope that one day you will say: “Hey I am coming to Antwerp, wanna meet?”. And I will already hate your future girlfriend because I will be so jealous of her. Because with you she definitely won the lottery. And you know why? Because you really are the best person ever.
This could be us. But you probably hate The Notebook. Haha. In stead of see you forever, I will have to say, See you never. xoxo

PS: If you think that this might have could be written for you, I challenge you to ask me if I wrote this for you..

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Dear You,

I know that You don’t know how I am feeling about You. But my feelings are strong and they are getting more and more intensive day by day and I can’t do this anymore.

It sounds cliche, but I laid my eyes on You the moment I saw You. You had this magnetism around You and were so attractive. And then, after I got to know You slightly by watching how You were treating other people, how You were with little kids, how kind You are, how sweet, I fell for You even more. I fell in love with Your soul. It was the first time I fell for a guy not simply because of his looks. You were my first real crush.
A part of me thought that You liked me too, but maybe I was wrong.

At the beginning I really thought we could be something, although we are different. But opposites attract, right?..

I saw how You were looking at me during lunch breaks and I felt not only butterflies in my stomach, but the whole zoo. But the point is, I feel that You grew out of these feelings for me, if You had them. And it hurts, because I felt how You drifted apart from me. You stopped saying "hi” in the hallways, You stopped looking at me the way You used too. And as I think about this more and more, You can’t imagine, how much it hurts. It hurts me that You will never know how I feel, You will never know how I used to cry myself to sleep every night because I couldn’t bear the thought that I will never be with You. Such an amazing person and such a sweet soul will never be with me.

I need to say goodbye, because, frankly, I see that You don’t care anymore. You graduated school and moved on with Your life and I need to do this too. I won’t see You anymore in the hallways standing and laughing with Your friends and maybe it’s for the best.

And maybe one day we will meet. A few years will go by and will see You. Maybe in a bar, just standing, drinking and laughing with a bunch of friends like it used to be in schools hallways and I will be able to pull myself together to talk to You without bringing the pain back.

I hope You will meet someone that You will love endlessly and they love You the same amount back. I just hope they understand, how lucky they are to have someone like You.

So, I say goodbye to You with tears running down my cheeks and I hope that this will turn out for the best.


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