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September 04, 2018 Anniversary Wishes 3 comments

With Valentine's Day on the horizon, now seems like the perfect time to talk about one of my very favorite written forms: the classic love letter.

When you genuinely care about someone, it’s hard to hide your emotions.

It becomes imperative to express your feelings and let him know how you feel.

Instead of keeping your love all bottled up, express it as soon as you can.

Assuming that your boyfriend or husband knows all about your feelings is not a clever thing to do.

Remember that it’s always lovely to hear the words spoken loudly.

If you are apprehensive that your words might be taken for granted, then fear not.

Because these romantic love letters for him below will help you express exactly what you’re feeling inside.

Steal them and make your love story a perfect one.

What Will I Learn?

Long Distance Letters

Letter 1

To My Beloved,

It’s not easy being so many miles away from you, but I kind of get inspired from this long distance love because I expect something or the other from it every day.

I keep counting every minute and second until I get the opportunity to wrap my arms around you again and fall asleep in your arms.

I want to feel your breath on my shoulders and hear your laugh.

You can’t imagine how much I want you at this present moment.

I can’t wait to feel your touch.

I love you, but this pain of missing you that I am going through is absolutely worth it.

You are the only one who is worthy of my love and I could wait a lifetime for the most wonderful person on this planet.

I hope you are in the pink of your health and absolutely hale and hearty.

Till the time we meet, cheerio.

Letter 2

My Dearest,

Not getting you close to me is slowly driving me crazy.

I simply can’t wait for the moment when we are together forever.

Those eight hours that we are away for work seem heavy for me.

I keep imagining you beside me and feeling your touch on my tender skin. I am dying to hear your voice teasing me and your fingers running across my hair.

Many a time, I turn around and expect to see you right beside me.

I get utterly disappointed when I don’t get to see you and I can’t describe the pain I go through when reality hits me.

I haven’t imagined a day without you and it’s only me who knows how is it like staying away from you.

I have often thought why can’t I live all by myself.

But the moment I have thought of spending a day without you, everything will go topsy-turvy.

All my plans for my future are absolutely incomplete without you.

My heart beats for you baby and I would die if you are not with me.

Promise me, that you would never leave me, come what may.

Staying far away from you is not possible anymore.

Please come back soon.

Miss you.

Reconciliation Letters

Letter 1

Darling,

I know you are furious with me and this letter might be the last thing you would want to read at this present moment.

The argument that we had last night was totally uncalled for and I realized this morning that how much I love you.

You know why?

Because I know I can trust you blindly and can easily get through this like every time.

We are a strong team and all these upheavals can never break the strong bond that we share.

We do know how to compromise, don’t we?

Even in the times that we get pissed off with each other, we have always stayed respectful towards each other.

This is the thing that I love about us.

Every couple fights and we are not exceptional.

Having said that, we know how to handle them with full maturity.

People say that wives are the better halves of their husbands.

However, I have always been of the opinion that you are my better half.

The way you have been by my side through thick and thin, I doubt anybody would.

Please forgive me if I have hurt you in any way. I never intended to and I hope I never would.

Love you.

Letter 2

Sweetheart,

I’m really sorry that I have hurt you.

You don’t know what I am feeling right now.

You know baby, I never wanted to be the reason a single tear runs down that hunky face.

Believe me, I never wanted to be the reason why you would become upset.

I get hurt every time I hurt you.

I cry when you cry.

No matter how hard we fight, I feel like running back to your arms every time.

You are my solace, honey. You are the person for whom my life has a new meaning, a new identity.

I really don’t know if you need this apology or not, but I wouldn’t be able to forgive myself if you don’t forgive me.

As far as I know, you are not a person who holds grudges. You never were. I hate it when I hurt you, even for a moment, even for a second.

I shouldn’t have been so hard-hearted to someone who has floored me with his kindness.

With all my heart, I love you!

I always have.

And I promise you that I will take this as a learning experience.

Waiting to hug you.

Letter 3

Hey Sweetie,

I don’t know if I should be telling you this now, but I seriously can’t get you off my mind.

Maybe this is not a good idea, but I badly want to get back to you.

My friends have often advised me to set things right, but something has been stopping from reaching out to you.

Maybe it’s my ego, But, the fact of the matter is, I have realized that I can’t live without you.

After we broke up, there hasn’t been a single moment I haven’t thought about you.

Trust me, I haven’t deleted a single part of our memories, be it your texts, or the pictures we clicked together.

I am not aware of whether you have done it.

I very well know that we have had our own problems, but I have a strong belief that we can sort out everything together.

In my heart, I do wish to run into your arms one more time.

Miss you dear.

Letter 4

Darling,

If you ask me it was really painful to break up with you.

I never wanted it to happen. After we have separated, there has been a huge void in my life.

I wanted to spend my whole life with you, get married, have kids, and die in your arms.

Unfortunately, there has been a hiccup, which neither of us has been able to deal with.

I always wanted to cook meals for you and give you all the happiness in the world. I had so many plans for the future.

However, our love story has ended so abruptly, that I am at a loss for words and can’t think about anything else.

Can you help me work out our future out once more?

I have a strong feeling that you and I are made for each other and our story hasn’t officially ended.

Mark my words.

Missing Him Letters

Letter 1

Honey,

It has only been a while that we had last met.

But I don’t know why it seems like years I have last seen you.

Your touch, your breath, those eyes staring at me, that smile across your lips, make me go weak in the knees and I can’t express how I miss them every time you leave.

I know I am being a bit too selfish in asking you to stick to me each and every moment, but sweetheart, the fact is I can’t away from you for much longer.

Maybe you would understand, maybe you wouldn’t and maybe my way of expressing my love for you wouldn’t get across to you, but I hope one day you would realize that my love for you is true and eternal.

Nothing, and I mean nothing can come between us.

Wish, you were here to listen to what I have to say.

The next time when we meet, I am not going to shy away from showering all my love on you dear.

Miss you so much.

Letter 2

My love,

It has been only been a day that I have shifted to a new city.

These 24 hours that I have not seen you have started taking a toll on me badly.

The pain from being away from you is so painful dear.

I always had such great times with you that I couldn’t imagine how it would be like to stay away from you.

If a day seems so heavy, how would I spend the rest six months?

It’s frightening me already.

The very thought of it is driving me mad.

I wish you could be here with you so that I could see and feel you every time I wanted to.

But that too seems to be a distant reality.

The moment I try to imagine a second without you, I feel terrified, to be honest.

I can’t wait to get back to you, but my professional commitments are proving to be the major hurdle.

I wish there wouldn’t be any gap between you and me.

I promise to finish my work as soon as possible and jump back into your arms.

I can’t wait.

Miss me.

Anniversary Letters

Letter 1

My love,

It’s hard to believe that one more year has passed by.

It seems like it’s just tomorrow we met.

You are a gift from God who has graced my life with all the love. It feels like I have known you for ages.

With your arrival in my life, everything has been so meaningless, because you are the one who has mattered to me the most.

You have been the guiding light and I would be lost if I don’t have you.

I want to thank you for everything you have done for me.

Thanks to you, I have matured as a woman.

However, I still depend on you for many things. I am incomplete without you, darling.

Please don’t ever leave me.

Happy Anniversary Sweetheart.

Love you to the moon and back.

Letter 2

To The Love Of My Life,

I believe we are the cutest couple and I love us.

No sweetie, I am not boasting.

I mean it.

We are indeed the perfect couple and it has been another year that we have enjoyed marital bliss.

We do understand each other and listen to each other every time we have a difference in opinion because of the mutual respect that we have for each other.

You are my inspiration and my role model.

I have always looked up to you for everything and the way you deal with all the ups and downs of life is something I have derived my inspiration from.

You have never shied away from facing the adversities of life and that itself has impressed me to the core.

Negative situations come and go, but you have been a rock, weathering all kinds of storms single-handedly.

A brand new year is about to start, but this seems to be just the beginning of a long road that we have planned to travel together, however tough and rocky it would be.

I love you sweetie, and I know you love me more.

Happy Anniversary My Lifeline.

Thank You Letter

Dearie,

I never thought of writing a letter to you.

But, all of a sudden, it seemed necessary as I was missing you like hell.

In an age of texts, Facebook chats, and WhatsApp, writing a letter seems to be something completely out of place.

However, I thought it would be a sweet gesture on my part and I really feel you would love it.

Well, this is actually a thank you note.

Why?

Because I wanted to thank you for everything you have done for me.

Thank you for washing my dishes, thank you for making my bed, thank you for staying beside me when I am sick,

Thanks for those hugs and kisses you have gifted me, thanks so much for squeezing all the sadness and disappointments out of my life, thank you for each and everything.

No, it’s not an obligation.

I know you do everything because you love me.

You have instilled a whole lot of confidence in me when I have felt down and out.

Most of all, I want to thank you for being there for me.

I never thought I would come across a person like you who would know me more than I do.

Having said that, a big thank you for being my best friend.

Can never stop loving you.

Casual Love Letter

I can’t wait until your birthday to confess what you mean to me.

Actually, you are everything I always wanted from God.

I know I don’t often say this.

You know how guarded I am about my feelings and I am very well aware of much you hate this habit of mine.

But, I did feel like opening my heart and pour all my feelings for you in this letter.

I hope you know how much I love you and how much I care about you.

I never imagined that I can have so much love for someone.

I know there are days when we argue a lot, quarrel, and even don’t see eye-to-eye.

But, trust me, you are the only person on this planet, I can shower my love and anger on at the same time.

Dude, you are my best pal and I guess I have the right to be mad at you.

The next time we stand in front of each other, I assure you I would make up for everything.

Last, but not least, thank you for everything. Be there for me just like you have been till now.

I wouldn’t disappoint you for sure.

You can trust me blindly on that.

Confidence-boosting Letters

Letter 1

My boo,

Did I tell you before that you are the most good-looking and attractive man I have ever met in my life?

Yes, honey, it’s the truth.

I thank God because you are mine.

I couldn’t have a more precious gift.

You make me laugh as no one does.

You are awesome in bed and I don’t think can be better than you.

Do you know what’s the best part I love about you?

Your compassion and warmth towards others.

These are the qualities that are rarely seen in men nowadays.

You are not perfect, of course not.

In fact, nobody is.

But your flaws are your charm and that’s why you look all the more alluring to me.

There is no point in being perfect.

It’s boring and mundane. Your imperfection has given me utter joy.

I wouldn’t ever want to change a single thing about you.

Never.

The way you look at me is enough to melt my heart and the way you smile at me sets my adrenaline rushing.

If I have to tell you truly, I have butterflies in my stomach the moment you touch me.

Ohh, baby, you can never know how you make me go crazy. To me, you are the best.

You always will be.

Letter 2

Sweetheart,

I know how upset you are regarding that promotion.

I know how badly you expected a hike. But, things don’t always go according to our wish.

Our expectations don’t always have a fruitful result irrespective of how badly we want it.

Disappointments are a part and parcel of life.

It doesn’t mean that you would stop working towards success.

Remember, it doesn’t matter how slowly you go as long as you don’t stop. You have to work harder.

I am always there for you no matter what. If the whole world stops believing in you, I never will.

I know that one day or the other, you will achieve what has always desired and deserved.

You have all the potential to be at the top and one day, you would.

Don’t lose confidence in yourself because that’s the biggest weapon you have.

It’s always up to you how you would want to shape your life.

Rest, leave it to the almighty.

He will set everything straight.

In The Mood Letter

Hi Hottie,

I am going to make this night hotter for you.

Come back soon from work because something out of the world is waiting for you.

I won’t divulge the details in this letter.

It’s a surprise.

Keep thinking about it the whole day.

Tonight, I will show you heaven.

I really want to gift you an experience of a lifetime.

So, make your way home as early as possible as something exciting is waiting for you, baby.

Video on How to Write A Love Letter

Here is a fantastic video from Pitney Bows as she explains how to effectively write love letters that’ll capture his heart.

She also included practical tips and suggestions that’ll help you improve your letter writing.

Enjoy!

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In conclusion…

These are some of the best love letters for him from the heart.

You can take suggestions from here as well as note them down.

These romantic love letters would allow you to get mushy and can prove to be indispensable in alluring him.

So what are you waiting for?

Start penning down your thoughts and feelings as soon as possible because your loved one is eagerly waiting.

Further Reading

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Relationship Anniversary

My Darling,

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It was two years ago tonight that you first told me you loved me and asked me to be your girlfriend. You changed my life that evening and put us on a path that has brought us such joy.

When I look at you today, I realize my love for you grows deeper, richer, and more satisfying as time goes by. Whenever something good happens, you're the first person I want to tell. When something bad happens, I know that I can count on you to take me in your arms and tell me everything will be alright.

I'm the luckiest woman in the world because I can truly say that I'm in love with my best friend. There's not another man in the world that can hold a candle to you, my darling, and I just wanted let you know that I love you more than even the most heartfelt words can express.

With love from the one who adores you.

Long Distance I Miss You Love Letter

Dear Heart,

Being apart from you is more difficult than I ever imagined. I see reminders of you everywhere I look, and they make me ache to be near you again.

I love you with all my heart. I cherish every moment we spend together, and I love you even more in the moments when we are apart. Tonight as I write this letter, it's like you are right here with me. I feel your hand on my shoulder, your fingers in my hair, and the soft breath of your kiss on my cheek. I miss you, darling. Come home soon.

All my love,

Your Forever Girl

Birthday Love Note to Him

Dearest,

Today is your birthday, and I just wanted to take a moment to tell you how much I love you. Just being with you has made all my dreams come true, and I want to do everything I can to make you feel that way too. You deserve to be treasured for being the sweetest, kindest, most thoughtful boyfriend any girl could ask for and believe me, I do treasure you. I hope we will celebrate your birthday together each year for the rest of our lives.

Happy Birthday from your sweetheart.

After a Fight

Honey,

I realize that I overreacted last night, and I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am. The truth is, I can't picture my life without you. When you walk into the room, my heart beats a little faster. When I hear your voice, I melt a little inside. And when I see your sweet face, I know that you are my one true love. When you take me in your arms, it feels like coming home to the only place I belong. Please forgive me and let me make it up to you tonight.

All my love,

Cuddle Bug

Feeling Romantic

Sweetie,

If you wonder just how much I love you, wonder no more. You are the sun in my sky, the river that runs through my soul, and the very air I breathe. Before I met you, I didn't believe it was possible to love someone so deeply and completely, but you have given me faith that true love really does exist because I share it with you.

Totally yours,

Lover Girl

Feeling Playful and Cute Love Letter

Dear John,

You are the most fortunate man on the planet because you receive a Dear John letter anytime someone writes to you. You are luckier still because my Dear John letters are unmatched in their love, appreciation, and tenderness. You send me flowers, I send you a Dear John. You give me tickets to my favorite musical, I give you a Dear John. You give me diamonds for my birthday, I give you a Dear John.

So my dearest, darling John, let me tell you how much I:

Desire you
Enjoy you
Adore you
Respect you

Je t'aime
Only want you
Honor you
Need you

Love you always, my dearest John.

Just Because

Hey Sweetie Pie,

You were already on my mind when I woke up this morning. Funny how I just can't stop thinking about you. Six months ago we hadn't even met, and now you are the most important person in my life. So, I just wanted to say I love you, and I can't wait to see you again.

From,

Your #1 Girl

Reasons Why I Love You Letter

Honey,

You always ask me why I love you, so I decided to write it all down so you can keep it and read it whenever you feel the need.

I love your sense of humor. It's one of the first things I noticed about you.

You have a way of putting people at ease with a simple joke, and you always include everyone in the fun instead of using your humor to put someone down.

I love your optimistic nature. You always try to see the good in every person and situation, even when I can't see it myself. When I look at the world through your eyes, it's a better place.

I love the way you look. You're so handsome, but you don't seem to realize how good looking you are. I see the way other people look at you, and I know they envy me for being with you. I'd love you even if you weren't so darn handsome, but I'm glad you are.

I love your gentle hands. You're such a strong man, but you have such a soft touch. When you take my hand in yours, I feel safe and cared for. I can't tell you how wonderful that is.

I love your generous soul. Whenever someone's in need, you're the first person to lend a hand. Some people might think you're a little too generous and easily taken advantage of, but I know better. You just can't resist helping because you understand how easily you could find yourself in the same situation.

I love the way you kiss me. Your lips perfectly fit with mine. I love those quick kisses you shower me with throughout the day, and I love your deep, lingering kisses even more. They make my toes curl, and I shiver with delight.

Most importantly, I love the way you complete me. You are my the soul mate I thought I'd never find. You cheer me up when I'm down and help me find balance when my world is out of control. You make me want to do the same for you.

When I think about all the reasons I love you, I begin to wonder why someone as special as you, loves me. Maybe someday you'll write a letter for me.

From,

Your Sweetheart

First Christmas Together

Darling,

I'm so excited we're about to spend our first Christmas together. This has always been my favorite holiday, but it will be even more special this year because we'll share it together. I cannot wait to sit by the tree with you on Christmas Eve, share a little wine, watch the lights twinkle, and open our gifts to each other. We can visit friends and family Christmas Day, but let's make Christmas Eve our own private celebration.

Love,

Your Christmas Angel

Boyfriend in the Military

Hi Sugar,

I hope this letter finds you safe and sound. I know you've only been deployed for a few weeks, but it already feels like an eternity. I miss the sound of your voice and being able to look at you and share a smile. I still haven't washed the shirt you left at my place because it smells like you. I like to put it on and imagine your arms are wrapped around me. You're the first thing I think of when I wake in the morning, the last thing I think of each night, and you're always in my dreams.

Even though I worry, I hope you know how proud I am of you and the sacrifice you're making for our country. You're the strongest, bravest person I know, and those are just a few reasons why I love you. I'll tell you the rest when you come home. Until then, stay safe my love.

From Your Sweetie

First Boyfriend

Hey Sweetie,

I always dreamed of having a boyfriend, and I used to ponder what he'd be like. I imagined he'd be handsome and funny, and he'd be a great person too. Now you're here, and all my dreams have become a reality. It's so wonderful to have someone special to share everything with. You laugh at my dorky jokes, and we love listening to the same music. I feel like I can tell you anything, and you understand exactly where I'm coming from. I've never been so happy, and it's all because of you. I hope you feel the same, and I promise I'll try to be the best girlfriend you'll ever have.

From,

Your Sunshine

Remembering the Night We Met

My Love,

I can remember the day we met like it was yesterday. We were at that party. I was having a drink and talking with a few friends when I randomly looked around the room. My eyes stopped on you, and my heart felt a rush. You happened to look over at the same moment and smiled at me. The minute I saw your smile, I knew I had to get to know you.

I went back to talking to my friends and trying not to let my excitement show, but my heart was beating so hard I found it difficult to hear the conversation. One of my friends asked me if I was all right because my face looked flushed. I turned my head, so you couldn't read my lips, and I told her, "I think I just fell in love with that gorgeous redhead over by the window." Of course, she had to take a look, and I grabbed her by the hand and dragged her to the kitchen with me because it was so obvious I was talking about you.

You walked into the kitchen a couple minutes later to add some ice to your glass, and there I was, wishing I could think of something witty to say. When it became obvious I was completely at a loss for words, you broke the ice by saying hi and flashing another one of those brilliant smiles. I managed to say hi back to you, and that was the beginning of a lovely conversation that has been going on for a little over a year now. To think, it all started with your smile.

Yours always,

Me

How to Write a Love Letter

When you're trying to figure out how to write a letter to someone you love, you may find that mere words don't express how you truly feel. You might get frustrated when your sweet love letter for him comes out sounding sappy and not at all what you wanted to convey. If you're not well-versed in the art of writing, you may feel as though your writing doesn't sound quite right. Here is the truth: when it comes from the heart, a love letter is always a romantic gesture.

Prepare to Write

You don't need a strict outline, but at least compose a list of the things you want to make sure to mention within the letter. What are the things you want to say to your loved one? Think about the main reason you're writing the letter. Is it to simply convey your love, or are you celebrating something specific like an anniversary or milestone in your relationship? Is your loved one having a difficult time at work and can use an emotional boost? Whether you're writing a brief love paragraph for your boyfriend or a long, epic letter, keep your motivation in mind when you make your preparatory list of the things you want to mention.

Start Writing

Compose a first draft where you just pour out all you emotions onto the paper (or screen), keeping your notes in mind and don't worry initially about grammar, spelling, or even how the letter sounds. After you're finished writing, walk away from it for an hour or so - a day is great, if possible. This allows you to review it with a clear perspective and see if it's along the lines of what you want to present.

Review the Letter

Read the letter out loud to yourself to hear how it really sounds. If you said these things to your loved one face-to-face, would they make sense and do they really express your feelings? Tweak anything that doesn't sound right and clean up the grammar and spelling.

Present the Letter

Write or print the final draft of the letter on attractive paper with romantic font or handwriting. Hand deliver it or leave it somewhere it will be found.

Speak From Your Heart

As you can see from these samples, writing a love letter can be as simple or dramatic as you want it to be. You can even add personal touches like enclosing a photo of the two of you or misting the letter with a little of your perfume. The truly important thing is to say what's in your heart and say it in your own words so they ring true when your boyfriend reads them. If you get it right and your passion shines through, you just might receive a love note from him in return where he says how he feels about you.

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What is a last will and testament? Everyone has heard those words and everyone knows that they’re important words. But, here’s a staggering statistic for you – 70% of Americans do not have a will.

Growing up, I often heard the term “will” or “last will and testament” usually on television or in adult conversations that I innocently overheard.  My mother and my aunts or their friends held conversations in the hallway of our family house. I didn’t know what a will was but it seemed like adult business so I never really thought much about it.

The Last Will And Testament

As I grew older, I began to understand what a will is but thought only rich people had them to make sure all their money and expensive items went to their families after they passed on. I never thought a will would apply to “regular” people. I didn’t realize how significant that piece of paper was until several years ago. Now I see differently.

Will preparation is something that everyone is aware of but many people have not taken steps to address? A will is important not only to the rich but also to “regular” people.

So, why have a will?

My Personal Experience

After my mom died several years ago, the family went through her things and we saw how organized she was. We always knew she was particular about things as her room was always impeccably neat. Her drawers and closets were meticulously organized. Her shoes were in their original boxes uniformly stacked on the top shelf of her closet. She didn’t have much but she did have some things.  She didn’t have a formal will but she had lists with items and who those items should go to.

The day before my mom died, we had a conversation as we often did those few weeks prior to her death. We spoke about my daughter who was going through some difficult times. I remember telling her how my daughter walked everyday in inclement weather to get her children to school.  The school was located a good mile or so away and there were no buses. My mom looked me in the eye and said, “Well, she has a car now. That car outside is hers.”

It was my mom’s car and she wanted her granddaughter to have it, however, the car has been a sore subject ever since her death. There was nothing in writing and if it went to court, there is no proof that that was ever said, I had been reminded. The reality is that my mother did NOT write it down and so it sits in my brother’s garage. With all my mother’s organizational abilities, skills for being precise and meticulous, she neglected to put that one item in writing. My family meets at holiday parties, my mom’s birthday memorials, and other social events but we never talk about the car.

Leave Your Last Will And Testament Behind

The lesson here is that it is so important to have a will, to leave a last will and testament behind. Whether you are rich or not so rich, everyone has assets of some kind. You want to have a say as to where your assets go, don’t you?

These assets can come in the form of the hard-earned money you spent years saving, or your prized possession whether it be a car, a fur coat, jewelry, electronics or even a book you may have written. If there is nothing in writing indicating your wishes, the courts will decide. Your loved ones should have those assets and they can, if you get your will prepared now. It’s really like leaving them a love letter…the last one you’ll ever leave!

Many people mistakenly think that if they pass on, their children would automatically go to grandma, auntie or some other relative. But if your wishes are not documented, your children could very easily become wards of the state and not benefit from any of your assets.  There can be nothing worse than being a child and stripped of the family members you know and love after losing your parent because your parent left nothing behind stating who he/she wanted to care for you.  A will with your wishes clearly spelled out cannot be mistaken nor misunderstood and it could save your children further heartache and heartbreak.

Some Myths About What Happens After A Person Passes

So many people think that wills are for older people and that young people need not concern themselves about them. Unfortunately, no one knows when they may face death. It happens to the young and old alike. If you have assets and you have family, you must ensure that your family is the recipient of those assets, regardless of how old you are. But remember, if it is not in writing, it’s up for fighting. And you really don’t want your loved ones fighting long after you’re gone.  That’s not the legacy you want to leave behind!

Did you know that if you’re married and have no children, your passing does not necessarily mean that your assets will go to your spouse? Depending on how large your assets are, family members may show up asking for a share of it.  Yes, it happens all the time! The courts may give your spouse a portion and then a portion to your mother and father, if alive. Otherwise, brothers and/or sisters and even distant relatives may get a portion.

Another scenario is that your assets may just remain in legal system limbo. All what you worked so hard for! Having your will prepared now can keep your assets in the hands of the ones you love.

What if you pass on and you leave behind a business? Without a will, there are no guarantees about what will happen. Will your children be taken of? What will happen to the business? These are practical questions that will have no definite answers if you do not prepare in advance. Once you are gone, it is too late!

If you live with your boyfriend/girlfriend and there is no will and one of you pass on, did you know that your partner will get nothing…absolutely nothing?

Common Mistakes

Here are two common mistakes people often make. I was speaking to a young mother at a school event recently who told me, very shyly, that she hadn’t had her will done because she was afraid.  The thought of preparing a piece of paper that would be used after her passing made her very uneasy.  She didn’t want to think about it so she’s been putting it off.  Big mistake!

Another woman told me, very proudly, that she prepared her own will by writing it out on a piece of paper.  big mistake! At least, for her, an attempt was made but when doing it this way, go the extra step. Writing a will without a lawyer is a route many people take, however, a qualified estate lawyer should review whatever you prepare.  They know the law and how it can impact the items in your will both positively as well as negatively.

These are only some of the things you must consider right now.  It won’t matter who said what or when it was said. Words won’t hold up in court.  If you have a will either prepared by an attorney or reviewed by one, there is clarity, there is direction. No questions, no problems, no stress.

So, do yourself and your loved ones a favor, write them a love letter. Get your will prepared now. Don’t delay! That piece of paper carries so much weight. It could be the difference between years of peace and turmoil for the ones you leave behind.

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Apology Letter To the One I Love

by Dakota
(Tennessee)

To The One I Love,

I hope that you have been doing well. I write this not to beg for you. I am not trying to win you back or even change your heart. I write this because I have hurt you. I have hurt you to the point where the pain was too great for you to withstand. I write this because I want to tell you how sorry I am for all that I have done.

I do not know how I could have been so foolish. For so long you had gave me the answers to how I could cure what you felt. You told me you would lay in bed at night and cry yourself to sleep because of the things that I would do; things I did not notice I was doing until now. It was hard for me to admit the wrongdoings I had committed against you. You wrote to me that instead of making things right that I instead would act like a victim. You are right.

I would feel bad for things that I did, like when I would miss one of your performances, or when I missed the third anniversary date you planned so hard for, but I would justify it to myself by saying that you had done similar things to me. I know now that what you did to me in the past does not matter for how I act in the future. I should have forgave and moved on. I want to say that I have forgiven everything that you did wrong.

I have no idea how you could ever forgive me for the things that I did wrong. When you decided to break up with me it was because I had misused your trust for the last time. I made another promise that I failed to keep. You told me that you have given me so many chances that you could not forgive me anymore. I understand. All you wanted me to do was show that I loved you by actually trying for you. I know that what I was doing was not trying. It was me being lazy and too complacent and comfortable.

I was given a movie that has changed my life for the better. It has really made me think about how to actually love someone. The movie is called Fireproof. You may have seen it, as I know your connection to God is a strong bond. There is a quote that really made me think deep down.

When a man is trying to win the heart of a woman, he studies her. He learns her likes, dislikes, habits, and hobbies. But after he wins her heart and marries her, he often stops learning about her. If the amount he studied before marriage was equal to a high school degree, he should continue to learn about her until he gains a college degree, a master’s degree, and ultimately a doctorate degree. It is a lifelong journey that draws his heart ever closer to hers.


I failed to continue to study you. I thought I had the answers but in reality I knew nothing. What pains me is that you were giving me the answers all along. I have read our old text messages; I have read what we would say on Skype. I read that you thought I never tried to impress you anymore.

You said that I was not making you as happy as I could. Instead of trying to find out what I could do all I did was give back a sarcastic answer. You are correct in saying that there was no talking to me anymore. Our words matter in how we love someone. They reflect how we feel in our hearts. I understand why you would believe I stopped caring. I failed to continue to study your needs.

I used to hate when you would ask me why I loved you. The reason is because I honestly was not sure why. I knew that I loved you. I felt like I loved you. But why?

I would say things like words do not exist to describe how I feel. That still holds some weight, but I know now why I love you. I love you because you would love me even when there was no clear reward. Even when I hurt you again and again you still tried to love me. You still tried to see if I would do better for you. You supported me when I felt like the world was against me. You held me when the only thing I wanted to do was run from life. You kissed me when I thought no one in the world could ever love me. Why did I not do that for you?

Why did I not go to your performances? Why did I not try harder to make time for you when all I had was time to give? Why did I not do things like go to church with you or sit down and spend time doing things you enjoyed to do? How could I have even dared to be so selfish? I always wanted you to come to me. I always focused on getting you alone in my room. Why did I not instead go to you? All these things prove to me that I did not love you like I should have loved you. I did not pull my fair share.

The only thing I want in the world is to have your forgiveness one last time.

I want to show you that I am changing myself for the better. I have grown to love you even more because now I want to show you that I do want to see you on stage, I do want to join you in prayer, I do want to take time and spend it with you. Yet, I may never get that chance.

You may never even see my words I write here as I have caused you to block all ways I have of talking to you. I can’t call you, I can’t message you, I can’t even see you in person or send something in the mail because I brought you to the point of fearing me.

The only thing I can do is wait and hope someday I am given a chance at your forgiveness. Until then, I have to continue learning. I have to continue discovering what it means to love someone.

My heart yearns for my efforts to be put into you, but I made mistakes; mistakes that pushed you away most likely forever. I am truthful when I say I am ready to fix all of my mistakes. I am honest when I say that I would never hurt you the way I have again. I want to show I love you for who you are and not what you can give. I want one last chance to make it right, but I know I do not deserve one.

Sincerely,
The One Who Loves You

 

Check out these beautiful example love letters to write to a boyfriend, and use these tips And when I see your sweet face, I know that you are my one true love .

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